Welcome to
Firm Footing

Is Your Relationship Stuck?
We help couples rebuild trust, strengthen communication, and grow closer — while staying rooted in Biblical truth and real-life experience. Whether you’re preparing for marriage, working through conflict, or just ready for something better, we’re here to help.

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Would you like help with your Relationship?​

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Family

Stronger families start with better conversations. We’ll help you build the kind of communication with your kids, parents, and extended family that creates lasting bonds.

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Marriage

Whether you’re newly engaged, newly married, or navigating a rough season — we’ll help you pinpoint what’s working, address what isn’t, and build a marriage worth celebrating.

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Foundation

Every relationship is only as strong as what it’s built on. We’ll help you identify and strengthen the Biblical roots that make trust, love, and commitment possible.

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Communication

Most relationship problems are communication problems in disguise. We’ll give you practical tools to have the hard conversations — and come out closer on the other side.

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Here’s how it works:

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Start with a free conversation.

We’ll listen to where you are, what you’re hoping for, and what’s been getting in the way.

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Build a plan together.

We’ll identify the areas to focus on and map out a coaching approach that fits your situation and your schedule.

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Do the work – and see the change.

Through consistent sessions and practical tools, you’ll build the communication, trust, and connection your relationship deserves.

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Don’t trip on what’s behind you.​

Firm Footing

About Us

We’ve been where you are.
Luke and Dean’na Wantz are faith-based relationship coaches based in Kansas City, MO. Married for over 12 years — and still learning — they know firsthand that strong marriages take intention, humility, and a solid foundation.
Through their coaching, books, and podcast, Luke and Deanna have helped couples and families open up, work through hard conversations, and build relationships that actually last. Their approach draws on Biblical principles, practical communication tools, and a whole lot of grace.

Our Tools

Here are some tools that we have developed to help marriages and others looking to build a Firm Foundation.

Taking Your Vitamins

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Welcome to our guide on helping you enjoy the journey of marriage. Too many times in life, we have a tendency to make this relationship harder than it should be. And A LOT of times it’s because we haven’t taken the time to TAKE OUR VITAMINS!

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Enjoying the Journey

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We wrote this devotional to bring you the same fundamental principles that we know have helped our marriage to thrive and that we’ve been able to use in every other relationship that we have. From friends to family, co-workers, and beyond, we encourage you to allow these scriptures, the Holy Spirit, and our words of encouragement, to guide you into a deeper place of connection with God and your loved ones.

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Upfront & Undivided

Real conversations with a real couple. In our podcast we will talk about and take on a variety of topics including: – Relationships/Marriage – Courting/Dating – Life – God and Christianity – Sex – Children – and any other random thing we might think of. Tag along and enjoy this ride with us as we open up our hearts and minds to you.

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What are people saying about our book?

As a pastor’s wife, I’ve worked with many couples navigating marriage, and I’ve had the privilege of watching Dean’na and Luke weather storms, conquer challenges, and achieve great victories—all while remaining deeply in love. That love and dedication shine through in Taking Your Vitamins, a powerful yet simple tool for strengthening relationships. Their wisdom makes communication and intentional connection approachable and practical. I highly recommend this resource to any couple looking to grow closer and build a solid foundation together
Kathy GMissouri
So, you basically created a successful marriage blueprint. The way this is written is direct yet kind… just like the two of you! You basically wipe away all the nonsense and leave solid advice. You simplify this whole marriage thing and slap the stressful “should I or shouldn’t I?” out of it.
Jenna W​Missouri
What an effective and tangible resource, Luke & Dean’na have created as an accessible reminder of what a healthy marriage is built on. Often we forget the core principles that keep a marriage healthy and Taking Your Vitamins is EXACTLY that. When things are tough, when communication seems distant just grab this, dig in, and find the Vitamin your marriage is missing!
Janek & Alison PKansas

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Here are a few questions to ask to see if you are ready and willing to be coached in your relationship.

Your next chapter starts with one conversation.

If you’re ready to invest in your relationship, we’d love to hear from you. Your first consultation is free — no pressure, just an honest talk about where you are and where you want to be.

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